The above post was made in the PBK forum regarding a discussion between two valued forum members arjunbhai and shivsenabhai. Both members are highly respected and with much experience in the subject matters of this forum.arjun wrote:If you continue to adopt the same policy you will reach the same fate as ex-l who has lost the goodwill of many souls in the world by constantly making negative statements about the BKs although he does occasionally point out the positive aspects of BKs and PBKs and has done a great service to both BKs and PBKs by painstakingly creating a huge database of BK/PBK related material on bkinfo forum.
But I wanted to follow this on, especially as history of these forums should also be documented so that forum members are treated equally. Yes, a lot of goodwill has been lost on the brahmakumaris.info. That forum (bkinfo admin) is infamous for banning people. If you make a positive suggestion with regards to anything BK (or PBK) you will be banned. On that forum you have to follow a new ongoing code of ethics which have no meaning since almost everyone (if not all) have broken the rules, but admin will select and decide who he/she likes to have on that forum, admin can change the code of ethics anytime to suit as pleased, admin will expect you to always read any ongoing changes by yourself, and will ban you or suspend you. And it is also ironic on that same forum there are BK members asking for Murlis, so they are obviously positive towards the BKs and are not ex-BKs, yet they are not banned but their email requests are made public.
So yes, that forum has made a great service to BKs and PBKs and for those who are banned, because there is too much negativity in that forum for everyone, and although it may serve as an outlet for those ex-BKs who seek some understanding, these people will come to realise the forum's demise is in its own negativity as it offers weak support (anonymous support too as it is only a virtual forum) to them whereas they can get more support elsewhere in society with real people (which is what ex-BKs need). The worse support for an ex-BK could be another ex-BK, unless that ex-BK has a positive view of BKs (such persons get banned on bkinfo).
This forum almost means that everyone is banned from brahmakumaris.info even if you have not been banned as yet, you will not be able to use that forum. It is ironic again since this forum was born out of the bkinfo forum, so my above previous post asking if the owners (hence admin) of this forum is the same as the owners of the bkinfo forum. Because it means that should the owners be the same, he/she can at anytime simply cut off this forum from the internet but leave the bkinfo alone standing.
I had not expect things have turned out as they are, but given the loss of goodwill of admin on bkinfo by many souls, anything can happen. Well it is according to drama.
But as yet, no reply has been made to know if the owner of bkinfo is the same as the owner of this forum. So I'll just leave it to the pride of the owner to leave it undisclosed but thank him/her for the great service given to many here.
It is a lesson for us all to always have goodwill and love and give regards to as many as possible even during difficult times, things will come to pass. But those (esp ex-BKs) who still hold onto the past with detest of BKs is only doing themselves little service such as wasting their own time in hatred, whereas they can use that time more effectively to rediscover love and compassion and forgiveness, and move on.
So please all enjoy this forum, aware that this forum is another instrument of drama.