A TRIBUTE TO THE JEWEL OF LIGHT Dadi PRAKASHMANI
Global Co-operation House, London 12th September 2007
”This evening is for everyone to experience Dadiji, who is still protecting us as an angel” were the opening remarks by Sister Maureen, co-host of the evening with Robin Ramsay.
In his opening remarks, Robin expressed how Dadiji’s love of life was so huge, her passion for giving so powerful and her spirituality consummate, that we are now gathered here to celebrate this.
Piano notes serene and gentle set-off this beautiful tribute evening with family and friends, including Lilian Carpenter who has been a friend of the BKs since 1974, and friends from the Swami Narayan Mandir and ISKON.
Robin shared how Dadiji was an immensely practical woman who in her 38 years as Administrative Head of the Brahma Kumaris, oversaw the opening of 4,000 centres throughout the world. A meditation centre has opened every 3 days - astonishing and true.
Maureen spoke of, how, when she first met Dadiji, she experienced love, spiritual authority and gentleness.
Sister Jayanti’s tribute started by revealing how she had always thought that Dadiji would be present with us practically until the task of spreading God’s peace to the world had been completed. Yet now she is with us on a subtle level.
At 14, Dadi had a vision of Krishna, the one embodying truth, innocence and beauty. Her Father, an astrologer, was not surprised when Dadiji surrendered to God and the task of upliftment of humanity at the young age of 17.
Sister Jayanti described the last hours of Brahma Baba in his bodily form on the 18th January 1969. How, at evening class, he said ‘Farewell’ (instead of the usual “Good Night” ) and then Dadiji accompanied him to his room. Dadiji experienced Baba’s drishti (spiritual vision), as silently he passed the mantle of leadership to her and the soul then flew away. Dadiji then took up the task of informing the world with words of complete stability, Brahma Baba has reached his state of perfection; nothing is new; drama.
Whenever people pointed to Dadiji as the leader she would point her finger upwards. She was the Server Leader. When asked once how many followers she had, she would refute the idea, saying that Raj Yoga students are all becoming leaders. Her leadership was based on humility. It is this quality that revealed such greatness which came from her very deep understanding of the self, so that she was able to give respect to everyone. She was always available to all, young and old – witnessed in the familiar scene of her greeting everyone in the courtyard of Pandav Bhavan. Her generosity of heart and openness was so big and inclusive she could take in each and everyone.
Sister Jayanti shared how, after Dadij’s departure, the local tribal people of Mount Abu gathered with so much love to pay their respects to Dadiji. Dadi never gave sorrow to anyone; she blessed all and so received blessings from all. With Dadiji we saw the transition of a young girl into an angel: above all limits, able to give love freely and able to keep space for God in her heart. Dadiji guided hundreds of thousands towards God and yet, for her, it was the One above who did it all. Dadiji demonstrated being an angel, and now this is what she is calling all of us to become; this is Dadi's gift to us today.
A short film of Dadiji's life followed tracing her development from her first meeting the Founder at the age of 14 to the world leader she became. The Film ended with a quotation from Dadi, which so beautifully gives the essence of her approach: Give peace, take peace; give love, take love; give happiness, take happiness.
Sister Maureen noted that, when Dadiji came to London in 1977, she remembers her constant smile and how Dadiji stayed beyond any cultural differences, seeing everyone in the same light. She accepted all with love.
The Reverend Marcus Braybrooke, President of the World Congress of Faiths and Co-Chair of the Three Faiths Forum, brought condolences from these organisations and gave a moving tribute – the full version is included below:-
Dadi Prakashmani A Tribute by The Reverend Marcus Braybrook:
It is a privilege to be asked to speak on this special occasion. I bring the good wishes and sympathy of members of the World Congress of Faiths and Three Faiths Forum as well as Mary's and my own. It is a time of sadness at Dadi’s passing but also of celebration for a life that has brought blessing to so many people.
I first met Dadi Prakashmani when Mary and I, with our daughter Rachel, visited Madhuban nearly twenty years ago. Initially, I was in awe of her as Head of the Spiritual University but, when she received us, I was quickly aware of her love and compassion and her ability to see inside us and know what we were thinking and feeling.
We were greatly honoured that Dadi Prakashmani attended the Interfaith Gathering Sarva Dharma Sammelana at Bangalore in 1993 which was the Year of Inter-religious Understanding and Co-operation which was launched here at Global Co-operation House and marked the centenary of the World Parliament of Religions.
On my most recent visit, although she was very unwell, Dadi graciously found time and strength to see me and communicate her deep love – and, of course, to give me a present. On a previous visit with a group, she talked with us for some time. She asked me what I thought about reincarnation. I said I believed that all people are on a journey towards God and are at different stages. I do not know whether after death we continue that journey in other worlds or by revisiting this world. Those who are far advanced on that journey, like Jesus, radiate the light of the Divine and become transparent to their inner spiritual beauty.
They thereby encourage us on our journey and assure us that our destiny is to be changed into the likeness of God and to rediscover our true spiritual joy.
Dadi Prakashmani was one such pure soul. It has been an inspiration and a blessing to have known her. May we make her happy by our love and the purity of our lives.
Sangeeta Assommul, an international entrepreneur, heads the Marigold Group (a chain of fashion stores), who has known the Brahma Kumaris for many years and is helpful in many of our projects. Sangeeta met Dadiji once, just recently, and spoke the following words about her experience:
Tribute by Sangeeta Assommul
My tribute to Dadiji will be very different from anyone else’s, because she was unwell at the time. When I went into the room in Madhuban, I did not quite know what to expect; I was meeting the Head of this organisation and I felt strangely inadequate and quite overwhelmed. As I walked into the room, she was sitting on her chair. I was introduced to her and was waiting for her to say something. I did not know what to expect. She took my hand and met my eyes with hers. In that silence she overwhelmed me with so much mercy, so much forgiveness, and she said to me - without saying anything. It is the past; it is finished; don’t go there. Just be in the now’.
Suddenly I felt like I was a child in the arms of the mother, who sees her newborn baby for the first time, and gazes into the child’s eyes. Suddenly there was this love; I felt completely blessed and loved and so, so full. In these few minutes was the lesson of: Let the past go; be in the now; take this love, take all this energy, this gift; this is your birthright; this is your inheritance You have come and this is for you. I kept thinking: what is next? One more thing: Don’t look back, left, nor right, your aim is ahead of you.
Just like the acrobat on the tightrope, the minute you look back you fall, look left and right, you lose your concentration. If you look forward and have that aim, then you just go ahead.’ That was my one moment with Dadi. It probably lasted just four minutes but that was the four minutes that changed my life… Thank you Dadi.
BK Jonathan from Sheffield played a light and resonant piano piece, composed especially for this event, for Dadiji.
Robin reminded everyone that five years after Dadi Prakashmani took on the leadership of the organization in 1974, Dadi Janki came to London and, in 1977, Dadiji came to see her here. Dadi Janki, accompanied by Sister Denise, one of the original students from London and translating this evening, then took the stage:-
Dadi Janki’s words:
She is my Dadi and it is Dadi who has invited all of us here today… In the Sindhi language Dadi refers to an elder sister or a grandmother. Dadi was young, yet she became everyone’s grandmother and great-great grandmother, who gave love and nothing else - never seeing defects, only qualities, and giving love in which there were only blessings.
Just as the founding Father, she saw herself as the "nimit", the instrument who gets the work done, with no claim to anything. No matter what job it was, there was never a burden. When there is a burden, we feel disturbed and tired and then not able to be respectful in relations; we start being critical. Dadi made sure nothing like this could occur.
Instead, many souls experienced empowerment through her. Dadi showed everyone how to become good.
Brahma Baba had showed us how to transform ourselves from one thing to something different in life, to have honesty, divinity and humility. For when there is truth and purity then humility naturally works and when there is humility there develops a depth to a person and feelings of goodwill can make things happen. Brahma Baba handed over to Dadiji, she was one who could bring so much truth and purity into the family.
Dadi demonstrated to us the principles of pure food for the body and study to develop our minds. She demonstrated to us that whatever one defines as our purpose so we make effort to fulfil this purpose. Brahma Baba gave us the meaning of what it is to be a Brahmin (one with spiritual awakening) one who is full of purity and truthfulness and who wishes to uplift all. Baba’s tapasya (intense meditation) was such that he made his mind only remember One and his spiritual service was such that he made himself so pure that everyone else would be inspired to do the same.
Baba demonstrated all this to us in the spiritual family and we saw too in Mama how a person could have such depth and love from the heart that everyone would call her Mother. Dadi did such that everyone would call her Dadi, even though she was young. Now we are being inspired by all three.
Dadi went on to explain three different types of people: the Brahmin, the warrior and the business person and encouraged all to become the Brahmin, who has an attitude of being an instrument, keeps a good aim and fills the self with values. Then there will be total freedom to serve and make effort for ourselves, resulting in good relations with each other.
A lot of people want freedom but, what will we do with it when we get it? True freedom is to reach the highest possible state of being and to have the feeling that no-one can hold me back. Dadiji was the accurate example of this.
Dadiji would always say to give blessings to all. Dadi Janki watched carefully what Brahma Baba, Dadi Prakashmani and Mama did to give everyone internal happiness. Dadi’s specialty was always to stay in self-respect and to give regard and respect to everyone. All of us are now learning this, so then, what shall we do?
Our practice is to come so close to God, to fill ourselves with so much love and happiness that this inspires others. We need to be careful not to have any negative thoughts in the mind, as this is harmful and causes disturbance. Through this practice we are going to change, the world is going to change but we are not going to defame anyone. We should never worry about trying to change another person, as the greatest achievement is to create transformation within ourselves; this will inspire others.
Dadi Prakashmani became so sweet through such patience. Through peace and patience everything becomes good. So freedom means: no disturbance inside. I am not careless but I am carefree.
Sister Veronica led the audience into a meditation:
Dadiji’s transcendental invokes me; invites me to turn around; to turn inside out, to cast off this known costume of concerns to trade it for a costume of light; she reminds me. Try it on, it is yours ... it has your name on it and like me you will grow into it ... And, as her deep dark eyes hold mine, see myself reflected in them as light ... and when she sees ... that I have begun to accept ... even her costume of light fades to be absorbed by the Supreme Light ... the source of light ... and now ... in front of that One ... I hear the subtle message ... This is who you are ... my child ... an angel of light ... become that and help to fill that space that has been left on the earth by Dadi, our Jewel of Light ... and I say; "Yes".
Wrapping up the celebration Robin quoted Dadiji’s inspiring words:
God is remembered as The Purifier and this is His task to change the impure to pure once again. This is the task in which we are all engaged. Because the world belongs to the physical dimension it has to be physical human beings who will be part of this process of transformation and will help in this task and this is why we have the slogan when we change, we change the world and this is the task we all have to be engaged in together at this moment.
Yoga means union with God, the Father. It brings about detachment from the body and the experience of one’s own eternity. Everyone needs to be able to take this experience from God and take the power that is available from the Supreme because through that power one is able to conquer negativity. Each one is influenced by a certain amount of negativity at this moment. The practice of Yoga or union with the Supreme gives us the power to change this.
Only a powerful soul can offer love; only a powerful soul can afford to be humble; if our souls are weak then we become selfish; if our souls become empty then we take; but if our souls are filled with love we automatically give to all. And that is our true nature.
Sister Maureen gave thanks to all and emphasized that everyone came because of God’s love and Dadiji’s love. Sister Maureen especially thanked Sister Jayanti and Dadi Janki, two very special guardians of our family in London and over the whole world. Dadi Janki was one who encouraged me to go close to Dadi Prakashmani, to learn and take inspiration from her. When the Dadis are together, there is an incredible unity and they are such an example to all of us of how human relations can be so special in this life. It the world can have just a little of this love, it would be a very different place.
Toli (sweet) and a specially printed tribute to Dadiji’s life were then shared by Dadi Janki.